Saturday, September 5, 2009

New photos of the babe!

Thought I'd throw a few newer pics up here for all to see. Up above, Nora loves to sit on the cat bed, thinking it's a tiny sofa for herself. It's so cute. She absolutely loves it.
We went to the track last weekend, and Nora and I played in the grass and took a walk in her stroller while Chris went for a run. Usually that entails Nora throwing her Spongebob out of the stroller 100 times thinking it's funny.
Here is Nora again w/Elmo, her other love:

Fall has been hinting of its return lately with slightly chillier mornings, and while we are sad to see summer go, we are looking forward to all things Fall - pumpkin picking, Halloween, and of course, Nora's 1st birthday.

She's growing so fast, turning into a bona fide toddler. It's fun.
Her top teeth are coming in. She's got two that have cut through and two more that are right there.

And of course she loves to play w/her toys!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Where did the time go?

My baby is soon to be One.Year.Old.
I cannot believe it.
At this time last year, I was going to my childbirth classes, studying my Hypnobabies, and waiting impatiently to meet her.
Right now this minute, she's climbing the tv stand, chewing on a cinnamon raisin bagel, and wearing her favorite Spongebob T-shirt. A very active and beautiful 10.5 month old little person.

She's got a few "words" - Mama, Dada, Duck. Her version of "Cosette" (sounds like Ah-Sett). She just cut her 3rd tooth yesterday/today (hooray!).

I need to record memories more often, here and in her baby book. Time is just flying by. I actually started researching pre-schools and then had to stop myself b/c I realized I was ahead of myself again. It's time to just live and enjoy her, to sit back and let her become who she is meant to be.

I love being her mama.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Summer is Near!

Sorry it's been so long since the last update. Life is truly going by so fast that by the time I have a second to get online another month (or two, lol) has gone by!!

Nora's going to be 8 months old this week and I still can't believe it.

She took off crawling a month ago, the same weekend she turned 7 months. She also cut her first tooth that weekend, much to our surprise. She cut her second tooth this month, around the 18th, so she now has two teeth (the bottom two middle ones).

She's crawling and you can't keep her out of anything. It's definitely interesting. If it's too quiet somewhere I know I need to find her and see what she's gotten into!

She is also now saying "mama" - so much so that it seems to be all that comes out of her little mouth (as in, "mamamamamamamama" which never ends...) It's cute and sweet ... and tiring! She has gotten really good at clapping, too. Whenever she's excited she starts clapping and it's so cute!

She's doing better w/solids. She loves watermelon, asparagus, and broccoli the best. A few not-so-favorites are banana and avocado. She hates being fed anything on a spoon. The few times I've tried I've not been very successful!

Other than Nora News, not much is going on at the Suleski house. The cats are doing well as are Chris and I. We are enjoying the nicer weather and getting outdoors more often. We are working on our house little by little. We started cleaning out the upstairs with plans to turn it into an office type room, and we also plan to build a patio out back with pavers and install a sliding glass door in the breezeway. Hopefully we can finish these projects by the end of summer.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Six months and solid!

Nora has turned six months old! We can't believe it's been so long already, seems like only yesterday Carrie was pregnant with her.

With her six month birthday, we've started giving Nora some solid foods to figure out how to eat. Aside from a few tastes of apple earlier in the week, on her birthday she got to hold and eat sweet potatoes.

It went surprisingly well as seen in the pictures. She understood to get the pieces to her mouth and managed to bite off and swallow some of them. She was incredibly excited to be able to do this and it was quite fun to watch. This weekend we'll try some bananas!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Our Growing Girl...

So, I haven't updated for awhile about Nora, so here goes!

I've been working part time since the end of January, working only 3 days a week so I can spend more time at home with my little munchkin. It has been working out great. For those 3 days, she gets to hang out with Grandma and her uncles, so she has the best care possible while Mama is at work! Everyone has a great time while she is there!

Nora is sleeping pretty well at night. She goes to bed relatively easily (most nights) by nursing to sleep after bathtime. She usually drifts off by 9:30 pm. She wakes only 2-3 times during the night to nurse, and gets up in the morning around 7:30 or 8 am. On days we go to Grandma's we try to get her up around quarter to 8 so we all have time to get ready and out the door.

Bathtime has become much more fun. She has all but outgrown her little seat and refuses to lean back in it b/c she wants to be upright or on her belly "swimming"! She loves to kick and swim and chase her bath toys!

Out of the bath, she is a pro at rolling over from her back to her belly! Almost as soon as you set her down, she flips over and starts playing. She has a few favorite toys (a little frog, a pink and white striped cat to name a few) and looks for them when she starts playing! If we hand her the wrong toy, she definitely lets us know by tossing it to the side until we give her the right one! She knows what she wants and is very determined to get it! Although, lately, she's more interested in playing with empty water bottles or trail mix containers.

She is definitely starting to get more interested in what Mama and Daddy are eating, and tries to grab our plates or our spoons and forks. It's so great to see these changes, and watch her develop and learn. She is still 100% breastfed for now and will be for a while longer. We will start offering her solids after she is 6 months old, starting with soft fruits (like avocados or bananas) and cooked vegetables. We aren't planning on feeding her baby cereal at all, but instead offering natural fruits, vegetables, and other foods that she can feed herself. This concept of self-feeding and baby-led weaning is something I've done quite a bit of reading about, and Chris and I feel it is the best for her and makes the most sense.

She is wearing mostly 9 month sized clothes (some 6-9's) and weighs (according to our scale) just over 18 lbs! She will be 5 months old in just a few days, and we honestly cannot believe how fast the time is going by and how quickly she is growing. At the same time, we love each stage as she grows, learns, and interacts with us more!

Now as Spring draws closer we are really looking forward to playing outdoors, going to the park with her and taking more walks. Winter has been long and cold and we are READY to move daytime outside!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Why Homebirth?

I was perusing the homebirth forum on, where I posted often during my pregnancy and even more often now that Nora is here, and came across this gem.

She said it was ok to repost it, and I'm so glad she is willing to share. If anyone wants to stop by her personal blog, here is a link:

If you have a few minutes, please take the time to read. You may learn something and who knows, you may change your mind and decide to homebirth when/if you have your own babies...


When hearing the news that I had my last baby at home and am planning to have this one at home as well, the first response from most people is, "You're so brave."

This has to be one of the most irritating things that people say to homebirthers. The implication is that birth is dangerous and that we are willing to take on a tremendous risk to do it anywhere but a hospital. It negates the research and planning that we've done to come to this decision. It makes the choice about balls, not brains. After all, homebirth is "dangerous." Hospital birth is "safe." Therefore, it must be bravado alone that would lead a woman to choosing such an option. Right?

In 2003, over 20% of women had their labors induced, with a rate closer to 40% in many hospitals, while that rate should not exceed 10% (and has remained at 10% in most industrialized nations). Inductions are approximately 5 times more likely among planned hospital births than planned homebirths. An 1999 American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology "Green Journal" review of 7000 inductions found that 3 out of 4 of the inductions were not medically necessary. Inductions are performed unnecessarily for estimated size of the baby (too large or too small), going past the estimated due date, amniotic fluid levels that are low but not critically low (correctable in nearly all cases by rehydration of the mother), rupture of membranes without immediate start of labor, the mother being dilated/effaced but not in active labor, or scheduling reasons on the part of the mother or care provider. Approximately 40-50% of inductions fail (depending on the induction method used and the mother's Bishop score), and most failed inductions end in cesarean section. Inductions increase labor pain and length, and create, among other problems, an increased risk of fetal distress, uterine rupture, and cesarean section.

But homebirth is "dangerous." Hospital birth is "safe."

Over 30% of women in the US have cesarean sections, while overwhelming research has led the World Health Organization to set an ideal standard rate of cesarean sections at 10-12%, with 15% being the rate where more harm is being done instead of good. Cesareans are performed at a similar rate across all risk groups, low to high. The cesarean rate for planned births at home or in an independent birthing center is approximately 4%. Cesarean sections increase the likelihood of maternal death by as much as 4 times, and have other immediate and long-term heath risks for mothers that include, but are not limited to, infection, bowel or bladder perforation, hysterectomy, future infertility, and increased risk of uterine rupture for future pregnancies. Risks for the baby include respiratory distress, fetal injury, prematurity (if result of schedule section or failed induction), and breastfeeding difficulties. Four of the greatest causes for the increase in cesarean section are overuse of interventions during labor, concern for malpractice/liability on the part of care providers, failed labor inductions, and "failure to progress" (labor not progressing fast enough or regularly enough for care providers).

But homebirth is "dangerous" and hospital birth is "safe."

The ACOG and AMA have both come out against homebirthing, calling it a dangerous trend and referring to it as a "fashionable, trendy, [...] the latest cause célèbre," and they paint a horrible picture of complications arising in low-risk pregnancies with no warning that cannot be handled anywhere but the hospital. Despite that, the most thorough study ever done on homebirth safety, Kenneth C Johnson and Betty-Anne Daviss's Outcomes of planned home births with certified professional midwives: large prospective study in North America, BMJ 2005;330:1416 (18 June), found that the outcomes of planned homebirths for low risk mothers were the same as the outcomes of planned hospital births for low risk mothers, with a significantly lower incident of interventions in the homebirth group. The Lewis Mehl Study of home and hospital births, which matched couples in each group for age, parity, education, race, and pregnancy/birth risk factors, found the hospital group had 9 times the rate of episiotomies and tearing, 3 times the cesarean rate, 6 times the fetal distress, 2 times the use of oxytocin for induction/augmentation, 9 times the use of analgesia/anesthesia, 5 times the rate of maternal blood pressure increase, 3 times the rate of maternal hemorrhage, 4 times the rate of infection, 20 times the rate of forceps use, and 30 times the rate of birth injuries (including skull fractures and nerve damage). Breastfeeding success rates are higher and postpartum depression rates are lower for planned homebirths.

But homebirth is "dangerous" and hospital birth is "safe."

The United States spends more per pregnancy/birth than any other country, the vast majority of women in the US give birth in hospitals, and yet the US's maternal death rate is the worst among 28 industrialized nations and the neonatal mortality rate is the second worst. The Netherlands, where 36% of babies are born at home, has lower maternal and neonatal mortality rates than the US. Denmark, where all women have access to the option for a safe and legal home birth, has one of the lowest maternal and neonatal mortality rates.

But homebirth is "dangerous," hospital birth is "safe," and Brutus is an honorable man.

I didn't choose a homebirth because I am brave. Bravery has little to do with it. If anything, I believe women who choose to give birth in US hospitals are the brave ones, because knowing what I know about our technocratic obstetrical system, I can't imagine voluntarily choosing an obstetrician and a hospital for anything but absolute medical necessity. My decision to homebirth wasn't made in a void, but based upon years of research. I wonder how much research the average woman puts into her hospital birth? Considering how many times I've heard someone say "I'm glad I was in the hospital because..." and then given as her reason a non-emergent situation (such as fetal size or nuchal cords), I'd say not that much.

Call me stubborn, because I wasn't willing to accept out of hand the culturally held belief that hospitals are safer. Call me an idealist, because I believe that birth can be a positive, safe, and empowering experience for child and mother. Call me a nonconformist, because I choose to birth at home in defiance of a powerful technocratic system. Call me outspoken, because I can't keep my mouth shut when I hear about yet another iatrogenic birth calamity. Call me a "birth nazi," because I believe it's the right and responsibility of every woman to educate herself about birth and take ownership of her birth experience.

But brave? Don't call me brave. "Brave" has nothing to do with it.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009


Well these breakthroughs sure seem to come in bursts. Over the weekend, we noticed Nora intently looking at her fingers and touching them together, then later that day she was throwing her legs up and grabbing them (at least tried to grab them).
Now she's rolling over! Last night we saw her roll from back to belly for the first time, and today over Grandma's house she was rolling back and forth, and even started scooting backwards.